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Post by Susan Peabody on Jul 17, 2020 23:27:01 GMT
My response to a call for help . . . I identify with your story. I was also a victim of domestic violence. Congratulations for calling the police. I was taken hostage by my ex-husband in 1971 and I called my mom for help. She was also a codependent so she paid him money to leave alone. Thank God my children were not home when he broke down the door. Here is our category about domestic violence. Stay away from him. Get out of the line of fire. You cannot fix him. Being nice will not help; it will makes things worse. These guys "bite the hand that feeds them." Go to any lengths to get through withdrawal. When he gets out of jail get a restraining order and new locks. Do not get in another relationship for awhile as that will drive him over the edge and he will become more violent. I waited until my ex got a new girlfriends before I started dating again. Finally stay single until you recover from your love addiction and codependency. I will pray for you. loveaddictsanonymous.boards.net/board/134/domestic-violence
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